looking around homeschool You know in your families, co-op, a support group, or church, you can see that most consist of more than one child. In fact, in 2006 the National Center for Education report found that families with three or more children, 62% of the homeschool population. If you are one of the few in which the only child at home, you can ask yourself the question, “Can I homeschool my only child?”
The answer is emphatically yes, you can. Only families with many children the same benefits of homeschooling offers larger families. A friend who homeschooled her son only until the age of 10, if their families miraculously grew in size, reminded me of the fact that homeschooling, as anything else, is what to do. If you sow good seed in your homeschool, you can fix a rich harvest, regardless of the number of children at home.
My husband and I have our hearts set to homeschool our children before we even had. We were introduced to homeschooling, we are now just a 12-year-old was born. Our reasons for homeschooling in the sense that in most families, the whole parenting, home to his heart, to introduce him to raise a strong Christian worldview. We paid much attention to her only child, until I joined a homeschool support group and I realized we were in the minority. Only two of over thirty families in my support group, to which we belong, were very large families.
I do not panic. We believe that is not modified. We had a God-given vision for our family. I have rejoiced in the benefits of an only child Home School I could see right away: a lot of one-on-one time, more freedom to choose the curriculum and activities, and more flexibility in the schedule as already offered by homeschooling.
But first, consider some of the tests, you may encounter as you strive to homeschool an only child. Homeschooling only one child has some unique challenges, but none of them are insurmountable.
interaction with other people
I do not think is a homeschooling mom who has not fielded questions about socialization. Since only the child’s family, you may feel doubly oriented. Well-meaning friends and family, our daughter had argued in a traditional school environment because they have no siblings to help him learn to share and work with differences. Private, not that I have them in the same category peers, which would help shape his self-esteem.
So Base deficiencies lack siblings. One of the first lessons he learned respect for themselves, others and things. Simple, I know it helpful if the values ??of life. Applied homeschooling, these rules are taught the elements of the real daughter of socialization, not what society requires socialization. He taught himself in his mind, respect for life and his image of himself as a bright, compassionate, strong, and a child of God. Tolerance is important, when we went to the library and listen to the instructions of his math assignment. Respect for the things developed naturally out of the discussions of God’s creation. Take care of my toys, breakables in our house, and borrowed from friends that grew.
We also sought to provide opportunities for our daughter relationships. We are involved in our church and community events. We lived in a support group also organizes trips. We contributed to the friendships, plan time together. We started a support group to visit nursing home residents once a month, so the benefit of both our daughters to practice his social skills and the value is a blessing to others. These activities are the main objective was to learn to communicate with people of all ages and in different stages of life.
Home be avoided for children
falling into the trap of child-centered home is a genuine concern for every parent, especially in older homeschooled only child. Our children, such a central role in our lives, how we keep the authority of our house? We make sure that his home care is growing as they grow into adulthood, and opportunities. For example, we serve others in our near neighbors, widows, and sick friends. We model a healthy marriage, we make time for each other as husband and wife, and we remember to put God first above everything.
One-on-one time with parents,
Homeschooling is a valuable quality time between parents and children. If you are homeschooling the only child, so it can be even more useful. When mom and dad like most of our daughter’s playmates, we can focus on specific skills such as sharing and playing fair.
Once my husband came home from work and found my daughter and I compete fiercely in a game of Candy Land. Although it is sometimes tempting to let him win, we know that if we allow him to win every time, they do not know how to lose gracefully. We are able to spend much of our time to nurture their own talents and interests, and values ??embedded in his heart. Regardless of family size, which is one of the greatest blessings of homeschooling.
freedom and flexibility
Every child has a one-of-a-kind creation of God, homeschooling, and we can focus on the uniqueness of each child. This is another one of the blessings we enjoy, regardless of family size, which means that families like ours can take advantage of homeschooling, as well as anyone.
We want to preserve the freedom of choice. We choose the curriculum that compliments our children learning style, time, topic, or use our child or Latin cursive, workbooks, manipulatives, or learning, and on it goes.
different sizes, the same blessings
As I have repeatedly emphasized the benefits of homeschooling are basically the same, regardless of family size. Some blessings may occur in different ways, and to a lesser extent, the amount may vary. For example, a family with several children to have more features integrated features, such as cooperation and sharing of learning, while a family with one child, enjoying more flexibility to choose the curriculum and activities. In both cases, the diversity of homeschooling families to adjust their approach to using the built-in strengths and weaknesses in any form. It is a great advantage of homeschooling is adaptive, flexible and adaptable to the unique circumstances of your family.
Journey worth
What I want to impress you, the child’s parent only wonder pressing is this: the journey is still worthwhile. <-! Next page -> may take some creative thinking you do, but if God has given you a vision of homeschool your child, nothing is impossible with Him. “He who has begun a good work in you will make up Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:06).